A Single Girl's Prayer

Its the Holiday Season and people are praying to the Lord to fulfill their wishes for the coming year...Somewhere amidst so many prayers there is a Single girl who wants her wishes to be fulfilled this year...Eyes Closed...Kneeling Down...wearing an old ragged shorts and T-shirt

Dear God

grant me the serenity to sit through a date without cringing,

Give me courage to walk out on a delicious bad-boy

Present me with the wisdom to keep looking.

Now when I lay myself to sleep

I pray for a man who is not a creep

One who is handsome, smart and strong

And not afraid to admit when he is wrong

I pray that he is gainfully employed

Who won’t lose his cool on me when he is annoyed

I pray that he love me to no end and never ever compare me to my best friend

A man who would love my cooking better than his mother

Send me a man who would make love to my mind

Thank you in advance and now I jus wait,

For I know you will send him before its too late

Damnn it..I was planning to write a blog but this is turning to be a poetic saga….but that is that..as long as my prayers are answered….

My Speed, My race, My Dream, My Fantasy

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The script starts in a simple neighborhood, with a very simple looking girl going for work in the morning waving to her mother, father and a half-sleepy brother. She works all day but by the night this girl changes into something that is not very simple in her fantasy world.

She has a dream to make it into the man’s world of machine especially race cars. Even in her dreams she hears the roaring sounds of engines n sees hydraulics around with her on the driver seat and one hand on the steering wheel n the other on the gear, with police sirens around and and a mystical look in her eyes as she drives right past through them in blasting speed.

She dreams about her turbocharged car having hide-away neon license plate, her name on the headrest “DEE-VA”, red suede leather on the roof, high back seats, glow interiors, NOS tank in the back, military radar in the car grille, performance camshafts and cylinder head porting, also valve timing, camshaft timer, and volume of music that the speakers can handle that gives her more thrill to pass the bikers who think girls can’t ride all she says to herself “yo, boys, lemme show ya who's the boss”…She knows she cannot be caught by fool who think they can..before they could start their engine, *poof* she is gone.

People just stare when she drives around, men wanna race but can’t keep with her on the 5^th gear…when she is in action..speed is her fantasy..

Then there goes a sound *wrrrrrriiiinnnnngggggggggg* and the alarm goes on…its 7am and back to work

Living in the fantasy worlds is jus awesome.. I love it *wink*

SIW (Single Independent Woman)

I was thinking its real nice to be single...now that i am in peace with myself..it feels awesum to be single...maybe that is what triggered this post

I am an SIW (Single Independent Woman)


I heard a saying “Some women are not meant to be tamed..”

Guess that is that category I come from. I don’t need a shining star. I am no delicate darling and I don’t want to be rescued. I seriously don’t need a frog or a charming prince..I am what the hep world loves to be “Single and Happy”

We got no one to worry about. No one to demand an explanation when the phone is “Waiting” at 12 am..The best advantage of being single is the attention that gets showered from all the directions..and you know you are worth every bit of it *wink wink*

I mean who likes to be tagged as “his girl".
We would rather be called as “me”
I am the kind of person who has been single like all my life and there are many out there like me and we sure rock. A few things that I feel are the advantages of Single is like total independence..This may sound dumb..

All ma time is mine..See let me explain
If you are a single woman, You can pick up and go anywhere you want, anytime you want. You may occasionally feel that you have too much empty time on your hands, but you can fill that time any way that you want without anyone making remarks at you.
If you are single, you can take full advantage of every day that you can spare. From weekend jaunts to summer resort vacations, this is the time in your life when you can best afford to get away. All your time is yours..


Ma money is all mine… Money is meant to be enjoyed.. You can splurge every penny you earn on yourself without bothering bout gifting anyone anything..indulge yourself without guiltof “not” shopping for the “partner”

There is a lotta learning too for a SIW..You see.. being single you know that you have no one to help the “Damsel in distress”..SO..jus go ahead
.. trust yourself handle things on your own; have your car serviced to dealing with home repair emergencies..to protecting yourself.. Through this process, you will learn how capable you truly are.

This is somehow my favorite part of this blog..its like the ultimate the biggest advantage to being a single woman. You have the unique opportunity to mold and shape your life and pursue your dreams. There are no reasons to settle for second-best and no one else is depending on the choices that you make. Even if your ultimate goal is to marry and settle down, you might as well get your own life in place first. So go for the brass ring and shoot for the stars. Create the life that you want for yourself and then, if you want one, find a partner who will fit into that life...Damn...do i sound matured or wat.... *tch tch*

Damn…”Singlesome is awesome”..I know a lot of them agree with me..

A Bitter Love story

They day he proposed her things changed.1 distraction in life can change a whole relation

In a dance party is where they met. He sees her enter the gates in her silver Lamborghini. Then he goes in to search for her. She is dancing away with her date. Suddenly she catches his eye and he watches her move. He goes to her and asks for a dance. She melts into his arms as if she belonged there all along. Soft music fills the air...his after-shave lingers around her. He holds her hips and they sway to the music. He looks into her eyes. That’s when he realizes that he wants to spend his whole life with her...she does feel a slight flutter in her but dismisses it since she is dating a friend for a few days now. They exchange numbers and part ways. He in his Chevrolet and she in her Lamborghini

She can’t stop thinking about him. She wants to call him but resists herself. She just cannot concentrate on her current date anymore. All her thoughts keep going back to the handsome man who had the eyes full of love. Every time her phone rings she expects to see his name on it.

He wants to call her. But is reluctant because he feels since she did not show any response to his advances. He doesn't want to get rejected this time. He has dated many women. He sure has had an eye for many women. But she was different. No one had stirred this kind of feeling in him ever.

16 days passed without any contact. He was missing her way too much...he could not concentrate on his work. He wanted to see her, meet her, hold her. She now realizes that she is in love with him. But like a typical girl she wanted him to make the first move.

He had raved and ranted about her to all his friends. Her best friend knew how much she adored him

He picks up his cell and types a message on it "hey, want to meet up?"

She was so joyed to see his message that she had tears in her eyes. She replied back "yes. sure.4.30pm waterfront"

He never expected an instant reply from her and that too a positive one.

He chose 25 red roses for her then changed his mind and got 1 pink rose. He spent all his day planning their date. He wanted to make it very special for the special woman in his life.

She spent an extra hour trying to look perfect for him. He reaches waterfront rite at 4.30am and sees her in a beautiful white gown with her hair tied on standing next to her shiny car. Waiting for him. He falls in love with her right over again...he decides that come what may he will propose her today.

They spend a beautiful evening by the lakeside. Talking about themselves. Seeing children play...that's when he holds her hand and says "I love you, I want to spend my whole life with you, I am a bad guy, but the truth is that I can never think of a life without you anymore”. She silently listens to him with tears in her eyes and just nods a yes. And they hug

He drives her to her house that eve. She smiles at him. He looks into her eyes. Pulls her in his arms and places a firm kiss on her lips and says I LOVE YOU again. She blushes and starts crossing the road. She is still hasn't come out the moment that she got kissed from the man she loved. She turned to see him...he gets out the car and starts walking towards her, both have their eyes locked. They didn't realize a speeding truck coming towards them...and...banggggggggggg.....................

  

the truck smashes his car...

he comes to the girl and says with his voice full of care and concern "babes.... darling.I..I..I... can I....gosh.I.. I am in love with. with with...your car ...can I have your Lamborghini keys. The car is just so so beautiful. I”. She stands there flabbergasted with no words to express how she felt

CONCLUSION: MEN WILL BE MEN.THEY PREFER CARS MORE THEN GIRLS

My Little Brother

I tried writing a small poem for the person who is my biggest strength and my biggest weakness too. I love him way too much to tell him...I hate him when he hurts himself...He is younger to me but behaves like an older one...He runs back to me when he needs comfort.

THIS LITTLE POEM IS DEDICATED TO MY LITTLE BROTHER

My brother is so annoying,
My brother is so mad,
My brother drives me crazy,
It makes me want to go mad,
My brother makes my father constantly yell,
My brother makes me and my mother cry,
My brother is crazy,
My brother is nuts,

Sometimes I want to grab him,
And beat him when he hurts himself,
I know he loves me, but he never shows

My brother is my baby,
My brother is my confidante,
My brother is my advisory
My brother is my strength
My brother is my weakness

Someday I will have to leave him alone and go,
I know that day will come soon,
All I have to tell him that there hasn't been a moment in my life,
that I haven't thanked god for giving me you 

Raiding the memory lane

I just want to share experience over here....

It was a fine Sunday afternoon, gentle wind teasing the rain-wet leaves, a beautiful scenario with people enjoying their weekend.

That’s when I decided to revamp ma closet. (Actually I have been thinking of cleaning it up for quite some time, jus that I was too lazy)

Just like I had expected. I opened my fine wardrobe and a heap of clothes, bags, lingerie’s, everything for that matter fell right on my head, burying me inside a mountain of what-nots

But, I so din expect ma closet-cleaning/revamping to be an adventurous, astonishing, fun journey. I always thought it to be a boring chore.

Now, slowly and steadily I emptied the pile and sat in the center or the room wondering where to start…

So..I started segregating the dresses according to their make and model (am not I sounding technical) …kurtis, shirts, salwars, formals, jeans, capris, skirts, shorts, night suits etc. etc… (etc. is inclusive of all small garments) …the folding was sure a herculean task…then came the main part…. had to hang ma umpteen number of t-shirts on…. that’s when I got my first surprise…Damn!! I actually forgot a few lovely old dresses hidden at the back of ma cupboard (That I almost forgot of) …I found some cute little skirts too…best part. I found money in an old jean…

After all the fabric clearance…I went on to clear up the drawers…Immensely tiring task (at least that what I thought it would be). But it wasn’t. I found a lot many things hidden in my treasure chest…Old sim cards…love letters from boyfriends and love chits from admirers, dried rose petals, and 3 dried roses, 1 toblerone pack, little teddy bear key chain, my knuckle punch (I thought I had lost it in transit), my cycle chain, a boxing glow key chain, some mementos, my old college id card, a few hall-tickets, my baby-pic, 2-3 cigarette boxes, 1 miniature rum bottle, a few gold rings, a necklace that I had got for a valentine, my old one-eyed puppy soft toy, 2 slam books, my stamp collection, my bus ticket collection stacked in a bag.

Gosh!! I mean I never imagined that I had so many things kept neatly in there.

These little things brought back the good memories, it felt really nice to travel back in time.

Especially, now when 70% of our time is spent at work, 10% in traveling, 10% in cribbing bout our problems, 9% in resting…we get measly 1% time for ourselves…

The memories have taught me a new lesson in life. Never waste an opportunity to tell the people important to you that you love them. Who knows it may stay life long as a memory. That will make you smile one day

Now I realize, TIME ONCE GONE CAN NEVER COME BACK.

How Mumbai sees friends?

I don't how to start this blog...I am making a genuine attempt to start this blog in a proper way..so that I can put ma views across...

Well...I have to travel for like 3 hours to and fro from ma house to ma work...

Today, I was kinda thinking (Actually thinking so deeply that I forgot that ma bus had almost reached my destination)...The life in Mumbai is so different..We tend to meet so many people day in and day out...The faces that are regulars at the bus stops, coffee shops, rickshaw stands etc etc.. I think its only in Mumbai that you have different category of friends..

Some common categories are

1. Bachpan k friends (childhood friends)

2. School friends

3. College friends...

Now...Special Mumbaiyya categories include

# Bus friends

# Train friends

# Building friends

# Area friends

# Just-smile at the daily road friends

# Just-Good Morning / Evening friends

# Sutta/Daru friends

# Chai wala tapri friends

# Canteen friends

uuufffff!!!!!!!!! I yam exhausted thinking so much...Guess I should take the help of ma 3am friends too..

It feels so nice to have so many known and unknown faces caring for you at any point of time and anywhere in the city..The kinda people about whom you know nothing...Sometimes you dun even know their names..But still they are a major chunk of your life

There were actual incidences when Ma Just-smile friends helped we when I was almost on the verge of collapsing..and there are times when your Bus friends share chips n chocolates when you are in dire need of it...there are times when you are low and your Just Good Morning friends light up your day...

I PERSONALLY THINK SO MANY FRIENDS JUST MEAN MORE SMILES..A BLESSING IN DISGUISE..

I LOVE ALL MA FRIENDS AND AM SO LUCKY TO HAVE THEM

Thanks a lot buddies...You make life worth living

Boring Saturdays

Hello My dahlings...Lotsa Mwaaahhss to all my munchkins

Ya know what people...Working on Saturday is a worst crime...n I tend to commit this offense every damn week...I should be slaughtered to death. Me thinks that My company need a few people like the description given below

# An Intelligent MBA dude with multiple skills and this Dude should be able to Fax, Email, File craps, Xerox and happily make a good cuppa coffee

# Young,ugly,friendless moron with no life, willing to work on weekends and holidays and take up my share of work too

# An Executive Assistant for me from a rich family..who is ready to work for peanuts jus coz he wants experience and money factor does not bother him..

# An Idiot who looks for an increment and takes 5% increment with a smile n never cribs about it and is ready to take a donkey load of work for another 2% increment

# A nice dumdum who can always be relied upon to give a kind ear to my problems and report them straight to the boss...and does not expect nethng more than a smile on ma face wen i get that huge fat paycheck and a promotion

# A professional who says the right things about me to the boss and expects jus a pat on his shoulder and who gives all his credentials of the work to me...which in turn gives ma a handsome raise.

# A problem solver who will jus make thngs right after I have made a helluva mess of it

# A talented loyalist who jus loves being bossed around by me.

Ahhhhhhh........people do u think dat I am asking too much....Naaaahhhhh

I am jus trying to make my organiasation a better place to work.